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14 Prayers for a Cheating Husband or Boyfriend

What is cheating and what counts as cheating?

Cheating is also referred to as infidelity, straying, adultery, being unfaithful or having an affair.It is breaking of trust or violating a contract/rules of emotional or sexual exclusivity.
  • What counts as infidelity
It is difficult to define infidelity because people differ on what they feel is cheating. Some people believe it is not acceptable for a partner to:
  • Flirt.
  • Have a sexual talk with someone else.
  • Exchange texts or emails.
  • Talk too much to a person of opposite sex.
  • Chat with someone else online.
  • Share deep intimate information and thoughts with someone else.
  • Become emotionally involved with someone else
  • Become physically intimate with someone else.
The definition of infidelity depends on each couple and the boundaries they have set in their marriage or relationship.

If your boyfriend/husband likes photos of half naked women,twerking and provocative pictures on social media, would you be offended?

10 Signs of a cheating husband or boyfriend





Most people have the instincts that they are being cheated on but they don't trust this instincts.They are therefore the last to know and they end up devastated once they learn about it.They wish they had paid attention to those signs they had seen.
Below are some signs of infidelity that one should watch out for.
  1. The attitude towards you changes.He becomes critical of things and picks fights with you often.He speaks to you sarcastically
  2. Becomes distant.This is because he cannot handle to love two people at a go and because he is closer to someone else,he pushes you away.
  3. He lacks interest in the relationship
  4. He changes and pays attention to his appearance,wears cologne and gets dressed well more often and unnecessarily.
  5. Stops wearing his wedding ring.
  6. He becomes secretive and discreet.He is afraid to keep his phone out of sight.
  7. He is frequently not available and can't be reached on phone.
  8. He suddenly becomes busy working longer hours.
  9. He prefers to go places alone and not to be seen with you.
  10. His telephone manners begin to change.He has to leave when picking a call, ends a call when you enter a room or deletes numbers from the caller ID.

13 Reasons why some men cheat

I was careful to say some men cheat because not all men cheat.There are faithful and godly men out there and alot of marriages are awesome and doing great.People betray others in a relationship for many resons but there is no valid reason to actually cheat.One should walk away if they feel compelled to be unfaithful instead of hurting the other person.
Below are common reasons and excuses men give as to why they cheat.
  1. Because there is an opportunity.
  2. For adventure and thrill.
  3. Denial of conjugal rights by his wife.
  4. Sexual dissatisfaction.
  5. Lack of appreciation.
  6. Lack of emotional connection with the girlfriend or wife.
  7. Small arguments at home.
  8. The wife is not fun and attractive anymore.
  9. Anger and resentment towards the wife
  10. Peer pressure.His friends are cheating so he joins them so as to look "cool".
  11. Greed and lack of self control.
  12. To get money ,finacial and material support from an older woman(sugar mama)
  13. The classic one " I was drunk".
All the reasons above are vague reasons and excuses.Men who become unfaithful make the decision to do so...no excuses...you can either say yes or no to cheating, all the other reasons are used to justify the betrayal.Just like love is a choice,cheating too is a choice.Once we as human beings forget those vows we took looking each other in the eyes, we forget the foundation of our marriages and invite disaster.Infidelity occurs when the love of self exceeds the sacrifice of the union.
  • No woman should blame herself for her man cheating. Men don't cheat because they lack anything in particular. Not that they dont love, not that they are not satisfied at home, etc etc. It's because they want to cheat and make that choice to do so.

Do you usually see these signs and discover the cheating early enough?

Do you believe a man who has been unfaithful can change?
  • Healing from cheating: How to heal after being cheated on




Being betrayed is really painful and for most people it takes months if not years to heal.It's not easy because of the trust that was there.Below are some tips on how to heal after being cheated on.
  1. Forget the past and don't dwell on it.Stop rehearsing what happen we because it will delay your healing process.
  2. Forgive.“Forgiveness is a choice. It doesn’t mean what your partner did is OK. Unforgiveness will always keep you bitter and angry. It will destroy you and not the other person.
  3. Don't compare yourself with the person he was cheating you with.
  4. Cry it out.Don't bottle up emotions. Release that pain,stay in bed for as long as you want and cry.
  5. Get a therapist.He or she will help you direct your energy to so!ethimgelse and can also help you if you have issues such as confidence.
  6. Take care of yourself.Workout and dress well.Dressing well will make you feel good about yourself.

Can you forgive an unfaithful spouse?


  • Prayers for a cheating husband or boyfriend: Pray away the other woman




If you have discovered and confirmed that your husband or boyfriend has been unfaithful and instead of attacking the other woman, you would like to pray,below are some prayers that you can pray.
  1. Pray for his mind and thoughts.Father i pray against immoral imaginations and thoughts that defile the mind. (Romans 1: 28).According to 2Corintians 10:5 "Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ;", I put his thoughts to captivity and to the obedience of Christ.I pray that you will destroy every thought that is not in accordance to your will.Fill his thoughts with good and godly thoughts.Remind him of the vows he made and let his mind remember and always think about his family.
  2. Pray for his heart.Father I pray that you may put godly fear in his heart and that of the other woman.Give him a pure heart,may he hate sin and desire to live a holy life pleasant unto you.
  3. Pray that God will direct his steps.Father, may you guide his steps that he will no longer walk in wickedness and go astray from your commandment that we should not commit aldultery.Help him to walk in faithfulness and in your ways.
  4. Pray for conviction of his sexual sin confess his fault before God.Father may you convict him of his aldulteorus sin.Convict him of his unfaithfulness and cause guilt to be within him and he becomes repentant unto you.
  5. Pray that the other woman would fall deeply for another man that she forgets your husband.Father I pray that the other woman (mention name) will get a man who will deeply love and care for her so that she forgets my husband/boyfriend.
  6. Pray that the other woman would despise your husband and vice versa and they hate each other.That they will loose interest in each other.Father I pray that they will despise each other instead of valueing each other.May you cause them to belittle each other and not see the value of each other.Cause them to loose interest in each other
  7. Pray that your husband/boyfriend would get into a disagreement and hate the other woman.Father, I pray that this day/week that they will get into a disagreement and they would hate each other after that disagreement. I pray that you will cause them to disagree on everything they talk about.
  8. Pray that he would be delivered from lust.Father I pray that you deliver him from every spirit of lust, aldultery and every other spirit of sexual sin.Every evil spirit that is trying to control him,I command it to leave now in Jesus name.I pray that every desire and thirst to see another woman will leave.
  9. Cut him off from any misleading friendships,relations,neighbours and wrong company that are influencing him to cheat..Father may you cut him off from any ungodly friendships, relations and wrong company that mislead him, pressure and influence him into having extra marital affairs.Give him friends that will give him good and wise counsel and friends who will pressure and counsel him to stay faithful and walk in your ways.
  10. Pray that he will return home.Father I pray that he will return home and he will not rest or find sleep until he is free or released from that sexual relationship.
  11. Pray that you will forgive him.Father I pray that you help me forgive him as Christ has forgiven me.Grant me the grace to forgive so I don't hinder my own prayers.
  12. Pray for Restoration.Father you are a resotrer of all things and you make all things perfect.May you restore this karriage to its original postion and make it better and perfect.I pray that tou may rekindle our love for each other.
  13. Thank God for answering your prayers.Father, you have said that if we ask anything according to your will you will grant us and that if we believe we have received then we have it.I have faith that you have heard and answered my prayers and I thank you for healing and restoring my marriage.
  14. Shut all doors of future aldutery/unfaithfulness and cheating.Father I pray that he will never be unfaithful again.Rule over his mind, heart and body.I pray that you will give him the spirit of self control.I shut all doors of immorality and list and plead the blood of Jesus over his thoughts that he will never thiknof being unfaithful again.
  • Never despise the power of prayer.God is able to do the impossible.Don't abuse,send curse messages,fight the other woman and be the talk of your neighbourhood. Get on your knees and pray.
SCRIPTURES TO ASSURE YOU THAT ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE! NOTHING IS HARD FOR GOD!
I hope this scriptures will build your faith as you pray.
  1. "Behold, I am the Lord, the God of all flesh:is there any thing too hard for me?"~ Jeremiah 32:27
  2. But Jesus looked at them and said, “With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.” ~ Matthew 19:26
  3. For nothing will be impossible with God. ~ Luke 1:37
  4. Jesus looked at them and said, “With man it is impossible, but not with God. For all things are possible with God.” ~ Mark 10:27
  5. He said to them, “Because of your little faith. For truly,I say to you, if you have faith like a grain of mustard seed, you will say to this mountain, move from here to there, and it will move and nothing will be impossible for you.” ~Matthew 17:20
  6. Therefore I say unto you, What things soever ye desire, when ye pray, believe that ye receive [them], and ye shall have [them]. ~ Mark 11:24
  7. Ah, Lord GOD! behold, thou hast made the heaven and the earth by thy great power and stretched out arm, [and] there is nothing too hard for thee: ~ Jeremiah 32:17
  8. What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us? ~ Romans 8:31
  9. No temptation has overtaken you that is not comman to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you betempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide a way of escape, that you may be able to endure it. ~ 1 Corinthians 10:13
  10. Fear thou not; for I [am] with thee: be not dismayed; for I [am] thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness. ~ Isaiah 41:10

Would you consider prayers for a cheating spouse?

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Safety Tips for Women: How to Protect Yourself

Women are known to be vulnerable and this is a major factor that contributes to the instances of crime against women.In most cases the culprits who commit the crimes against women are weaker.Knowing some basic safety rules is important especially in this era where the world can be quite a scary place to live in.
  • Importance of knowing this safety rules
Knowing some safety rules can help you keep yourself safe and can help you feel confident when you are out and about be it in the streets,travelling,at home alone or when in danger.They are meant to empower you.
Below are some of the safety rules that you will find in this article.
  1. 8 ways to protect yourself from sexual assault.
  2. 15 ways to protect yourself from domestic violence and abuse in relationships.
  3. 14 safety tips for women living alone.
  4. 14 safety tips for women travelling alone(solo female travellers).
  5. 11 ways to protect yourself from being stalked.

8 Ways to Protect Yourself Against Rape and Sexual Assault

Sexaul assault is on the rise throughout the world and affects millions of people majorly women.
Below are some ways you can reduce the likelihood of being sexually assaulted.
  1. Always trust your gut and instincts.If you feel you are not comfortable with someone or your sorrounding isn't comfortable,just get away from that person or place.Perpetrators normally act in a way that you will feel uncomfortable thats why it's important that you listen and trust your gut.If you are walking and you feel like somebody is intentionally following you,try and get to a safer place for example a nearby shop or mall.
  2. If you are out for a party ,always stay with your friends and let them know when your leaving to go somewhere.
  3. Don't take too much alcohol while at a party
  4. If your going to receive a phone call or visit the rest rooms, don't leave your drink unattended and then come back and drink it.Somebody may put drugs into your drink and end up sexually assaulting you once you get unconscious.
  5. When walking alone, always be aware of your sorrounding.Use your senses of sight and listening.Pay attention to everything that is happening around you ,and don't use earphones while walking.You will most likely get a way out of a bad situation if you know where you are and who is around you.
  6. If you are going out on a date, alert your friends where you are going and if you don't know the person you will be meeting well,don't agree to go to a secluded or private venue.
  7. Be physically resistance such as self defense tactics and use also verbal attacks like yelling,screaming shouting.
  8. Avoid isolated areas because you won't get help in case of anything.

15 Ways to Protect Yourself From Domestic Violence or an Abusive Relationship

  • What is Domestic Violence
Domestic violence is violence or abusive behaviour in a relationship/marriage.Domestic violence is not physical violence alone.It can also be verbal ,sexual, emotional or psychological abuse.Most women find it hard to get out of an abusive relationship because the abusers usually use psychological tactics, threats and coercion so that they can make their partners stay.So how do you protect yourself from someone who wants to abuse you physically,emotionally,sexually or verbally?
  • 15 Ways women can protect themselves from domestic violence and abusive relationships
  1. .Be alert for any signs or red flags that show the abuser may be getting upset.
  2. Avoid places where you can be trapped such as the bathroom where it might be hard for you to leave.Avoid the kitchen where the abuser can grab a knife and find a room with doors and windows so that you can leave if the situation gets worse.Identify places in the house that are safe and where you can go the moment you notice your partner's behavior is getting worse
  3. Think of some people who do care about you so that you can contact them immediately.This includes people who are geographically close to you but they are also far enough from the threatening situation, so that they can house you plus your children temporarily, and also store personal items for you.
  4. If you get time with the kids,talk to them about how they can keep themselves safe if the situation worsens.For instance they can call an emergency number or run to a neighbours house.
  5. If the situation is getting worse, don't go where the children are because the abuser might harm them.
  6. Get out of the house if you are in a position to because it could take some time before the police respond to your call. If possible, you can run to a neighbor’s house for safety but make sure you let the police know where you are goingvto be so that the officers can find you.
  7. Call emergency services such as police emergency number.Call the number when you are in a safe place.Tell the officers that you are in danger and need someone to come rescue you at your home or the place you went to for safety.
  8. Have an extra set of house and car keys.
  9. Make sure you turn off GPS/location services on your mobile phone so that the abuser cannot track you down.
  10. Always have a memorized list of emergency contacts.Ask several people you know you can trust if you can contact them incase of danger or need assistance. Also have in memory the phone numbers and addresses of organizations and people who are willing to help you,
  11. Pack an emergency escape bag.The bag should contain things such as clothes, cash, supplies, prescribed medication,copies of important papers ( IDs, birth certificates, passports, etc.) and a list of important contacts.
  12. Open a bank account in your own name so that the abuser doesn't maintain their control financially.
  13. When a man hits you for the first time,don't wait for him to change.In most cases he won't and a majority of physical abusers end up doing more harm like using a knife to cut/chop off some body part or to kill.
  14. Don't wear scarves or jewellery because they might be used by the abuser to strangle you.
  15. Change all your passwords and usernames because your abuser may have installed a keylogger on your laptop/home computer and this would have made him know the passwords for your online accounts.Make sure your Facebook,Instagram and other social media accounts are privatized and the abuser cannot see who you might be with or where you are
Bonus.
  • After you leave seek a personal protection/restraining order from the court which will help protect you and your children from your abuse
  • Stay away from those places your abuser is likely to find you or look for you.

Scared to Live Alone? 14 Safety Tips for Women Living Alone

Living alone can be scary especially for single women living alone for the first time.Some women are generally fearful and feel uneasy about living alone. Below are some safety tips for those who are scared to live alone.
  1. Choose your environment or where you choose to live wisely.Get an apartment in an area that is secure and safe.It would be better that you spend more in transport and housing and you are assured of security, than get a cheaper apartment and end up risking your life.Live in an environment that doesn't have too much history of crime.
  2. Mind your company.Be careful of who you give and trust your information with.Information such as where you live,an area or a neighbourhood,whether you have roommates,whether you have a live in spouse should be shared with extreme caution.Don't invite people until you know them well.
  3. Be cautious of those men you let into your life because most of the problems are brought about by romantic partners or those that are hoping to be one.
  4. Invest in security and surveillance systems such as cameras.Some cameras can focus on both the inside and outside of the house and be viewed on your mobile phone from any location.
  5. Interact with your neighbours and get to know them because they can watch your home when you are away and they can also alert you when strangers are in your home.Don't open the door for strangers not unless you were expecting them.
  6. Avoid meeting people at your home especially people you don't know too well or people you are meeting for the first time.You can meet them in public places such as coffee houses or restaurants.
  7. Don't stay late at night regularly if you are alone.You are likely to meet criminals late at night who might follow you to your home especially if you are driving a car.
  8. Always keep your doors and windows closed.
  9. Invest in good locks and bolts and make it hard for burglars to enter tour home
  10. Keep your window blinds/curtains closed when you are away so people can't see what's inside the house and avoid using curtains that are transparent.You don't want people seeing your expensive household items like that expensive TV screen.
  11. Get a dog.There are dogs that are used for protection.This dogs can help you know when there is someone around because they hear faster than we do.
  12. Don't leave your keys hidden because most criminals know where to find them.
  13. If you are not at home,always live some light somewhere.There are some devices that switch the lights on and off at different times.
  14. Don't put so much information on your social media accounts especially about your whereabouts or when you will be living to visit another town.
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Can Soul Ties Be One Sided? Do They Affect Men?

What is a soul tie?

Before we get the answer to this questions, we must first know a few things about this tie.
  • It is an emotional bond or connection that unites you with someone else. They are strong attatchments which are formed through getting to know someone be it physically, socially or emotionally.You can become bound to a person through your soul.If you have excessively been tormented by thoughts about a person and you rehearse times with them,you could have ties with them.If you have greived over a relationship that was once sweet and then went sour,you could be having them.
The term Tie means to:
  • cleave together,
  • stick
  • join or knit. – where two become one.

How are they formed?

They are formed through:
  1. close friendships,
  2. vows, commitments and promises,
  3. physical intimacy.

Are all soul ties bad?

Not all are bad.
  • Good soul ties
God created us to have healthy relationships which will build us,give us wisdom and godly counsel.He strategically brings very good relationships to us so as to form healthy should ties.
“When David had finished speaking to Saul, the soul of Jonathan was knit with the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own life” (1 Sam. 18:1 (AMP).
Two people are joined together in a godly marriage and they become one flesh. When they become one flesh, they are bound together and they cleave to each other in a unique way to build a healthy and close relationship.
Matthew 19:5, "And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh."
  • Bad / unhealthy soul ties
On the other hand, satan does bring counterfeits into our lives and this form unhealthy soul ties.Bad soul ties are formed for example when one has sex outside marriage and becomes defiled.
Genesis 34:2-3, "And when Shechem the son of Hamor the Hivite, prince of the country, saw her, he took her, andlay with her, and defiled her. And his soul cleaved unto Dinahthe daughter of Jacob, and he loved the damsel, and spoke kindly unto the damsel."
That is why most people have feelings towards their ex lovers even after many years.
Other ways unhealthy soul ties can be formed include:·
  • Abusive relationships (physically, sexually, emotionally, verbally)·
  • Adulterous affairs· Sex before marriage· Controlling relationships
  • Unholy alliances and perverse relationships

Are they just in relationships? Types of soul ties

  1. Biological between a parent and child
  2. Social like when you join a social group eg a church,club and you have a bond as a group
  3. Emotional eg when you share emotions and experiences like Ruth and Naomi.“Don’t urge me to leave you or to turn back from you. Where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay. Your people will be my people and your God my God.”Ruth 1:16.Sometimes emotional soul ties are created with individuals and it makes it hard for them to make decisions without the other party or even be obedient to God because of the tie he or she has with someone else.
  4. Spiritual. God gave us the ability to impart, wisdom, knowledge, skill and spiritual gifts to one another.Moses and Joshua, Elijah and Elisha, Paul and Timothy, andmost importantly Jesus and His disciples.
  5. Physical.through sexual relationships. These soul ties can be formed through any kind of sexual activity.“That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.”Genesis 2:24. It is said that every time you perform a sexual act outside of marriage you give away a piece of your soul. It is a spiritual unity of two souls (bodies) becoming one but should only be done under marriage.Unlike popular belief sex does not only involve the body.It involves the soul, spirit and body.There is nothing as casual sex because as people get intimate something might be happening on a higher level that they might not have decided.

Symptoms

They are so easy to recognize because their symptoms are mostly very visible.Below are some of the symptoms.
  • You often dream or wake up at night thinking about someone
  • You think or see someone in your mind when you are intimate with your partner.
  • You hear someone's voice in your head
  • You are unable to walk out of an emotionally and physically abusive relationship because you feel so attached to them.
  • You think about another person obsessively even though you parted ways long ago.
  • You think about someone all the time even if you don't want to be with them.You waste valuable time thinking when the next phone call will come or trying to find out if they were seeing other women.
  • You defend your right to stay in a relationship even when its affecting you and your kids negatively.
  • You feel you badly need someone even if you know they aren't good for you.
  • You just can't let go.Every time you try to let go you keep coming back.One month you are gone and the next month you are back to the person.Can they be one sided and do they affect men?
  • As earlier stated, a soul tie is defined as an emotional bond or connection.One person ,most likely the woman is likely to form a deep attachment maybe because women are so emotional and base love on emotion instead of facts, like men do.Women fall in love without even realizing who the person they are falling for really is.It is easy for a woman to be taken advantage of because she is led by emotions.So yes, they can be one sided if the love or connection wasn't mutual.
  • Men too can get soul ties but in majority of cases men don't form that deep connection or attatchement with friends or women so they aren't soul tied.A man can easily move on meaning he did not have that attachment.But there are men who deeply and truly fall in love and breaking up with a woman becomes hard.Men get hurt too but they still find themselves loving that same woman who hurt them and they can't let them go no matter how hard they try.So yes, they do affect men as well.
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Workplace Rights during Pregnancy

Right to work while pregnant

Workplace Rights During Pregnancy
Pregnant women deserve to be treated equally and fairly by their employer.They should not bediscriminated or treated differently. This means that employers should not also create conditions that discriminate against women ormake them feel unwelcome because they are pregnant.Below is a guideline on the rights of awoman during the period of pregnancy.1. Pregnant women should be treated like any other employee.It is illegal for your employer todiscriminate a woman because of childbirth,pregnancy, or pregnancy related conditions. Pregnancy should instead be treated like a temporary medical condition that comes and goes.2. No woman should be forced to take leave . As long as a female employee can perform the tasks assigned to her, she should not be forced to take leave while she is pregnant. In case an employee is absent from work because of a pregnancy related condition, the employer should not force her to remain on leave until the baby's birth.3. No woman should be fired because she is pregnant.As long as the pregnant female employee can perform the major functions of her job ,an employer should not fire, deny a job or a promotion to a woman because of her pregnancy or pregnancy related conditions.
4.Pregnant women have a right to the same benefits that other employees with medical conditions receive. Pregnant women should beoffered the same level of medical benefits, leave, and temporary disability insurance that are given to employees who have other medical conditions or disabilities.Pregnant woman taking time away from work to get a medical checkup5. Pregnant women should be provided with a flexible work schedule so as to accommodate their needs.Pregnant women require a flexible work schedule.This may include flexible working hours, time off for medical checkup, orarranging for the employee to work from home.
6. Pregnant women can take maternity leave before the baby is born.If a pregnant woman is physically unable to work due to pregnancy or pregnancy-related conditions, she can take a maternity leave while still pregnant.7. A pregnant woman is entitled to have her duties at her work place changed if her pregnancy no longer allows her to perform parts of her job. For instance, if a pregnant store clerk who is restricted from lifting more than fifteen pounds due to some health reasons, cannot be asked to carry boxes heavier than that weight. The employer should instead request another employee who may beable to do this task temporarily to do it. The pregnant employee should then be given additional but less physically demanding tasksin exchange for not carrying heavy boxes.
8. A single mothers should be treated equally with married mothers.This means that they should not be denied the standard benefitsdue to their marital status.Benefits related to pregnancy cannot be limited to only married employees.Right to breastfeed at workWoman breastfeeding her child at work

Workplace Rights After Pregnancy
Even after pregnancy, women deserve to be treated fairly by their employer. After a pregnancy a woman should not be fired on the grounds of childbirth or breastfeeding. She has a right to return back to her job.The employee should also be reign-stated to the position she was in before her pregnancy.The employer should therefore lay off one of the junior employees and place the returning employee to her position.Lastly, employers should not deny women the right to breastfeed in work or in public, or refuse to accommodate breastfeeding at the workplace. They should permit female employees to have their infants brought in to be breastfed in the workplace or allow the pregnant woman to take time to breastfeed outside the workplace.
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Socialist and Marxist Feminism: A demand for the liberation of women

This scholars of this school of thought attributes women’s oppression to social class,race and ethnicity.The liberation of women is therefore the liberation of oppressive social class relations.Fredrick Engel’s theory of Originof the family locates women’s oppression in the inability to participate in the public sphere.The assumption that liberation of women from domestic to public sphere would automatically contribute to the liberation in every sense of the word was misplaced.In both the capitalist and socialist,it didn’t since women occupied a low paid job.Reproduction concept has been proposed as an antithesist of the familiar concept of production.

The debate links production to the economy and reproduction to the sexual system.Production and reproduction however take place in both systems ie. In every mode ofproduction involves reproduction of labor,social class and technology.For example the replacement of machinery is an example ofreproduction in the economy.The formation of Gender identity is an example of production in the domain of gender system but not all multi- variations of social reproduction can be attributed to the gender system.Gender system is the domain of social life.

The Marxist feminist participation in reproduction/production debate is summarized as:
1.Women are a reserve labor force of capitalism.Their lower wages provides surplus to the capitalist employer.They serve capitalism interest through management of family consumption.The underlying link between productive and reproductive activity operates on at least 3levels i.e structural, community and household levels.Structural factors refer to political,economic and social factors that pertain in each state in the region.Community factors apply to localized situations in a specific geographic location.Household dimensions refer to unique situations within individual homes.
2.There is a relationship between housework and the reproduction of labor.Several researchers have according to the Marxists that women’s work is not valued as recognized.They cite the fact that women’s social reproductive functions such as unpaid child care,domestic work, care for the aged and so forth are vital for the regions economies.Housework is not perceived as work by male dominated society since no wage is paid for it. Marxists ultimately consider women’s labor as contributing to the final quantity of surplus value realized after surplus value is derived from unpaid labor of the worker.The broad economic picture should include women in theformal sector or subsistence farming.This women belong to the lowest social strata bandsuffer from numerous difficulties such as poverty,access to credit,social harassment.inadequate information,dissemination network etc.Education researchers argue that the reproduction considers schools as photocopiers.Schooling in the capitalist section is considered as reinforcing social inequities and solidifying social class structure.It also maintains a workforce divided by social class.Schools also confirm identities of success and failure.This ensures that the mass of future employer labor force accepts its low position in the overall labor process.One variant views schools as producers.This approach maintains that schools so not only reproduce but go further to provide social class system.This view is supported by developing countries.Regional and gender differences are produced by universal access to primary education.Traditional division of labor too has been broken down by the absence of men in the rural sector.Women’s workload has increased dramatically and most women found themselves in the informal sector while those in the formal sector were concentrated at lower levels.The contradiction is evident to Marxists that liberation of women from public employment would automatically lead to their liberation.The male dominated socialist states have not changed the situation of women but merely adjusted it to suit the needs of socialism.Female headed households is a dilemma which faces feminists from all walks of life.Marxist feminists on the ability of the traditional Marxism to contribute to women's liberation by allocating class oppression in the specific socio- cultural milieu.They believe socialism can improve conditions of women but not liberation from men.Interaction between class,gender and race or ethnicity has been one of the greatest challenges of Marxist feminist in the region.Marxist feminist has been particularly attractive to feminist scholars challenging male white dominated ideologies and demanding development of black feminist theories.
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